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When I Don't Desire God: How to Fight for Joy
When I Don’t Desire God: How to Fight for Joy by John Piper. Chapter 3, “The Call to Fight for Joy in God: Taking God’s Demand for Delight Seriously” (pp. 32-44).

Précis

Preferring anything more than God is evil; righteousness entails a preference for God above all else, including obedience. Thus an indicator of a saved person is the taste for joy in God; its absence is an indicator of deadness in sin. Therefore, fighting for joy is essential, because eternal life is on the line.

A chief difficulty is that joy cannot be willed; it is received freely as a gift, but we are responsible to possess it. We are instructed to actively do something passive. The remainder of the book will address this difficulty, but there are three parts to the answer: First, the fight for joy itself is a gift. Second, we put ourselves in the path of God’s blessing. Third, the fight for joy is a fight to see; a clear vision of the truth inevitably leads to a right response.

NB

Margin notes from chapter 3:

  • The theme of irresistible grace runs throughout this chapter. Joy is the inevitable result of God’s grace when it is clearly seen and freely received. (cf. p. 44, “Seeing Christ is what leads to enjoying Christ;” see also quote on pp. 35-36 below.)
  • I really like Piper’s phrase “idols of delight” (p. 36) to describe loving the gift more than the giver. God’s gifts must lead us to delight in him.
  • I also like his phrase “alien joys” to describe the desires of our fallenness.
  • Piper is giving yet another call to actively do something passive. This makes me think he’s right on. God is always calling us to that sort of thing (cf. Eph. 5:18, “Be filled with the Spirit,” etc.)
  • Just as we cannot choose our beliefs (doxastic voluntarism), we cannot choose our joys.
  • The fact that we’re fighting for joy shows that we have tasted joy in God. The fight for joy in God may be thought of as a fruit of the Spirit.

Quotes

  • Always you renounce a lesser good for a greater; the opposite is what sin is… The struggle to submit… is not a struggle to submit but a struggle to accept and with passion. I mean, possibly, with joy. Picture me with my ground teeth stalking joy—fully armed too as it’s a highly dangerous quest. (p. 32, quoting Flannery O’Connor)
  • Loving Jesus, not just “deciding” for him or “being committed to him” or affirming all the right doctrines about him, is the mark of a true child of God. (p. 34)
  • The issue of salvation is loving or hating the light. Love darkness, or love light. That’s the crisis of the soul. But what is love for darkness? It’s preferring darkness, liking darkness, wanting darkness, running to darkness, being glad with darkness. But all of that is what Jesus demands for himself: “Prefer my light, like my fellowship, want my wisdom, run to my refuge, be glad in my grace. Above all, delight in me as a person.” Look around on all that the world can give; then say with the apostle Paul, “My desire is to depart and be with Christ, for that is far better” (Phil. 1:23). That is what it means to love Christ. And to have no love for him is to be accursed. (p. 35)
  • This is what Satan desperately wants to hide from the eyes of our hearts—a spiritual sight of Christ’s glory in the gospel. Not just facts, but the beauty of the facts. (p. 35)
  • The saving response to this spiritual apprehension of glory in the cross of Christ must include a pleasing sense of Christ’s beauty. It is inconceivable that faith would find Christ distasteful. It is inconceivable that the regenerate heart could look upon the glory of Christ in the gospel with indifferent or negative affections. (pp. 35-36)
  • Saving faith involves no less than being glad to have Jesus himself for who he is. It could not be otherwise, if the aim of God is to glorify his Son. If Christ is followed only because his gifts are great and his threats are terrible, he is not glorified by his followers. A defective lord can offer great gifts and terrible threats. And a person may want the gifts, fear the threats, and follow a lord whom they despise or pity or find boring or embarrassing, in order to have the gifts and avoid the threats. If Christ is to be glorified in his people, their following must be rooted not mainly in his promised gifts or threatened punishments, but in his glorious Person. (p. 36)
  • Eternal life is laid hold of only by a persevering fight for the joy of faith. (p. 37)
  • There is a devil-may-care, cavalier, superficial attitude toward the ongoing, daily intensity of personal joy in Christ, because people do not believe their eternal life depends on it. (p. 37)
  • The Christian life… is an earnest warfare from beginning to end, and the war is to defend and strengthen the fruit-bearing fields of joy in God. (p. 37)
  • The person who will receive the crown of eternal life is the person who successfully endures trial—that is, the person who fights for joy in the pain of loss and gets the victory over the unbelief of anger and bitterness and discouragement. (p. 37)
  • Worship services, Bible studies, prayer meetings, and fellowship gatherings in many churches do not have a spirit of earnestness and intensity and fervor and depth because people do not really believe that anything significant is at stake in the fight for joy—least of all their eternal life. The all-important priority seems to be cheerfulness, even jollity. (p. 38)
  • Maintaining joy in God takes “work”; that is, it’s a fight against every impulse for alien joys and every obstacle in the way to seeing and savoring Christ. (p. 39)
  • Joy happens in the heart spontaneously. You don’t get up in the morning feeling blue and then immediately experience joy simply because you decide to. If you are tired when you wake up, you can force yourself to throw your legs out of bed. But if you are gloomy and discouraged when you wake up, you cannot just start feeling happy. Joy is not in the power of the will the way physical motion is. (p. 40)
  • How does the fact that joy is a free gift of God relate to our responsibility to have it? One of the reasons we experience joy in God as spontaneous is that it’s a gift. And one of the reasons we must fight for it is that we are responsible to have it. So the questions are virtually the same: How do we fight for something that is spontaneous? And, what can we do to obtain a totally free gift? (p. 40)
  • Our fight for joy does not coerce God to give the gift of joy, but puts us in the path where he has ordained the blessing to come. I say it carefully, lest I sound as though joy can be demanded from the Almighty. It is a fruit of the Spirit that grows on the tree of faith (Gal. 5:22); it is not a wage God must pay for our work or for our fight. That God ordinarily gives joy when we walk in certain paths is no guarantee that he will do so according to our timetable. (p. 42)
  • We should fight to walk in the paths where he has promised his blessings. But when and how they come is God’s to decide, not ours. If they delay, we trust the wisdom of our Father’s timing, and we wait. In this way joy remains a gift, while we work patiently in the field of obedience and fight against the weeds and the crows and the rodents. Here is where joy will come. Here is where Christ will reveal himself (John 14:21). But that revelation and that joy will come when and how Christ chooses. It will be a gift. (p. 43)
  • The fight for joy is first and always a fight to see. (p. 43)
  • The fight does not undermine the fact that joy is a gift and a spontaneous experience. The joy that comes from seeing beauty is spontaneous no matter how hard one fought to see. The fighting does not cause the joy. Seeing causes the joy. And it does so freely. There is no coercion. No one stands before a beautiful sunrise and says, “Now I worked hard to get up this early; you owe me happiness by your bright colors.” No. We stand there, and in humility we receive. And if the joy comes, it is a gift. (p. 44)
  • The essence of the Christian life is learning to fight for joy in a way that does not replace grace… Our joy in [Jesus] will be the greater because we see him as the one who gives both the joy and the strength to fight for it. (p. 44)